The Ultimate New Year’s Resolution

We are “Come to the Edge Today” people, striving to live our lives to the fullest, answering daily invitations to grow and expand.  Because this is who we are, we view the approaching New Year as an opportunity for new insights, new beginnings, new resolutions.  We are determined and resolved to make changes.  Like you, I am anticipating the New Year with expanded visions and dreams for my life.  Mindful of these dreams, I began reading and journaling.  I’d like to share with you some of the insights I uncovered.  As the words began to flow onto the page, I could feel the resonance of them flowing from deep within.  I share them with the hope that you will find their meaning too.
Reflections on a New Years resolution:  Unfolding My Rose

It began with these quotes from “The Dance” by Oria Mountain Dreamer:

“What if your contribution to the world and the fulfillment of your own happiness is not dependent upon discovering a better method of prayer or technique of meditation, not dependent upon reading the right book or attending the right seminar, but upon really seeing and deeply appreciating yourself and the world as they are right now?”

“What if the task is simply to unfold, to become who you already are in your essential nature – gentle, compassionate, and capable of living fully and passionately present?”

“What if the question is not why am I so infrequently the person I really want to be, but why do I so infrequently want to be the person I really am?”

“What if becoming who and what we truly are happens not through striving and trying but by recognizing and receiving the people and places and practices that offer us the warmth of encouragement we need to unfold?”

These quotes “wowed” me with their truth.  And then I read this:

“Because you have no faith that who you are is enough”.

I was thrown off my chair with the truth and depth of this simple sentence.  “Because you have no faith that who you are is enough”.  Take some time to consider this!  Isn’t this at the core of how we live so much of our lives?  We do, relate, buy, prove, disprove, etc. etc. because deep down, we think there is something missing, something lacking in who we are.  We see ourselves as broken.  We think we are not enough.

What if nothing is broken?  What if our lives are part of the grand Whole and living is an opportunity for unfolding the gift that is already present?

This revelation that I am “enough” is a lifelong unfolding process – unfolding layer upon layer of the Wholeness that is already “me”.  It is like unfolding the pedals of a Rose.

This year is an opportunity for learning and allowing “me” to come forth.  It’s not about ‘becoming’ anything – it’s about the discovery of ‘being’.  There is nothing to overcome or to mend.  There is only revealing and unfolding of the me that ‘is’.  There is nothing to improve.  There is only unfolding.

My life, my world then, becomes a treasure chest to explore rather than something broken to be fixed.  And, if nothing is broken in me, then nothing is broken in you either.  My relationship with you and everyone in my world is about the unfolding of seeing you as you really are too. 

There is nothing to improve.  There is only unfolding.

Let us “Come to the Edge” this New Year with the intention to experience and ‘know’ that “Who I am is enough”.

Today’s “leaping” exercise:  Spend minutes, hours, days considering the following questions.  Ponder, journal, meditate, ‘unfold’ these questions for the New Year:

What does it feel like to know that ‘all I am is enough’?  What will it look like to experience the unfolding of my Rose?  How will I see and interact with you if all I see is the unfolding of your Rose?

You are a perfect Rose to be unfolded and discovered, as am I – Joan Kappes 

Happy New Year from Come to the Edge Today!

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